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Sara Bartlett's avatar

This week, I wrote about what happens when long-held holiday traditions no longer fit the life we’re living, now: https://theprettyintellectual.substack.com/p/keep-the-heart-let-go-of-the-habit

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Erica Lucast Stonestreet's avatar

The post I wrote this week, which will come out on Thursday, deals with similar themes. Sounds like this might be common for mid-life women--no surprise, right, now that we're in charge of all the things instead of our parents? Or that's the transition I'm realizing we're in now in my family.

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Sue Repko's avatar

Loved this post, Sara, as I have been re-thinking traditions for the past couple of years and trying new things. It's reassuring to know others are in this same frame of mind and time of life.

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Kristi Koeter's avatar

I had no idea this week's post about losing, well, damn near everything in perimenopause would be my most-commented ever! There is so much COLLECTIVE WISDOM and COMFORT from women in menopause. It makes me feel a little less insane to know that I'm not the only one experiencing these changes, especially the ones I wasn't expecting.

https://www.almostsated.com/p/losing-it-all-in-perimenopause

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Jessica Smock's avatar

That's wonderful, Kristi! Congratulations!

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Sue Repko's avatar

While I will be posting something new later today, I figured I would share my most recent post--about holding onto my own hard-won personal boundaries in a time of political upheaval.

https://lettinggoholdingon.substack.com/p/on-boundaries-and-tree-trunks

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Erica Lucast Stonestreet's avatar

I love this. I think it captures really well where I'm at too, though I don't think I would've excavated it that well or that clearly. <3

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Sue Repko's avatar

Thank you so much for reading, Erica. The next several years are going to require ongoing mindfulness and intentionality, which are good habits to cultivate no matter what, but will be essential now. <3

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Erica Lucast Stonestreet's avatar

As the weather gets cold in Minnesota, my post this week was about the importance of touch (thinking cozy!). https://ericalucaststonestreet.substack.com/p/being-a-body-2?r=25crho

I'm working on the next two weeks' posts, one about why I have an ambivalent relationship with gift giving (and just after I finished a draft, I read this great post-- https://matriarchyreport.substack.com/p/how-the-holidays-became-peak-gendered -- about a similar theme!), and one about what the point of pets is (because we're getting a puppy next Friday!) Then I'm going to take a two-week break to rest for the holidays. I'll probably write when I feel like it, but only if I feel like it. :)

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Liz McCrocklin's avatar

Last week I wrote about the people you lose in a divorce—and that children have a way of coming back around. https://atruelifebuilt.substack.com/p/life-after-loss

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Leslie Senevey's avatar

Shared your article in Notes!

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MandyB's avatar

I’ve been writing about the beauty of experience and how getting older means I can recognize a narcissist from 10 paces away!

https://open.substack.com/pub/mandyb1/p/experience-meet-wisdom?r=7qqya&utm_medium=ios

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Sue Repko's avatar

Thank you for this, Mandy -- I can releate and so enjoyed this piece.

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Dawn Levitt's avatar

This week, I wrote about meeting the mother of the young man whose heart I received as a heart transplant. https://dawnlevitt.substack.com/p/the-day-i-met-my-organ-donors-mother

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Leslie Senevey's avatar

First let me say that I love that this Share Thread is a thing! What a great idea.

The article I'm sharing this week is about my sister and her heartbreaking brain combo of autism and mental illness. And it's about my ongoing struggle to support her while trying to survive her. https://open.substack.com/pub/distractedbyprettythings/p/not-my-sisters-keeper?r=43tgx8&utm_campaign=post&utm_medium=web

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Maryann Jacobsen's avatar

I'm doing a challenge, helping women a breathing practice to help htem during the stressful holidays (and for a boost to health long-term) https://maryannjacobsen.substack.com/p/cultivate-your-breathing-practice

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Tawnya Gibson's avatar

Writing about book box sets I got every year at Christmas: https://open.substack.com/pub/tawnyagibson/p/in-my-box-set?r=l1ur6&utm_medium=ios

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Sara Stansberry's avatar

I wrote this piece recently to honor the icky feeling I've termed Drunk Uncle Energy. Most of us have experienced this feeling, which might be triggered during this season in our nation's politics.

https://open.substack.com/pub/sarastansberry/p/when-your-holiday-season-is-giving-drunk-uncle-energy?r=1n6o9x&utm_campaign=post&utm_medium=web

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Rebecca D. Martin's avatar

I'm nearing the end of the bookish autism memoir I'm sharing on Substack. This is the second-to-last chapter, the one where I realize I am neurodivergent. (It's long, but I read it aloud!) https://rebeccadmartin.substack.com/p/at-the-center-of-a-certain-turbulence

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Laura's avatar

Cindy DiTiberio came back to a previous post she’d written about Fair Play because the comments from men on that post were crazy! I wrote a note that mentioned my experience and my sister’s with using Fair Play and how we divided chores/are currently dividing chores with our husbands. Cindy DiTiberio is also a twin like we are, so I enjoy her substack!

https://substack.com/@lauradkimball/note/c-80153770?r=p79oq&utm_medium=ios&utm_source=notes-share-action

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